I make stuff
out of words, ideas, melodies, and code.
I am the lead singer and songwriter of Jim's Big Ego.
I wrote the system that runs this and hundreds of other websites at Slabmedia.
I have written a speculative fiction novel - available now direct from me.
During this COVID-19 emergency, I am doing a semi-weekly live concert Solo In Isolation Saturdays at 5pm EST on https://www.youtube.com/user/jimsbigego

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Solo In Isolation continues - #25 This Saturday at 5pmEST.

Saturday, January 9, 2021 5:00 PM to 6:15 PM Solo In Isolation #25 YouTube Live website: youtu.be/ccpnpMEhCJw Come join in the fun. If you want to find the past concerts, please become a patron of my work at Patreon . I'm adding content all the time and have unearthed some recordings that are not available anywhere else. Membership starts at $1/mo. See you then - tweet me requests @jiminfantino ! They haven't taken down my account yet! more »
An email discussion with E. regarding my post about Inverted Empathy.

Hi, Jim. Could you elaborate further on the " inverted empathy "? I came across your model before by chance, and in the process of looking up when empaths clash, I came across this again and believe this occurred. And could possibly be occurring in another respect? Not sure. Specifically, if you have anything on healing from an act of inverted empathy it is appreciated. Or something that you might find helpful.Thank you so much for any insights or thoughts you might have. E. Hi E., I’ve been pondering your email for a while and I will try to respond with something approaching intelligent. My starting place for that article is my experience with meditation and an understanding that empathy is an essential part of human nature. There are many views on this. In my study of Buddhism, I find it called Buddha Nature which they believe everyone has. From an evolutionary perspective, it is caused by the fact that humans have survived not because of our individual physical power, but the power we have when we work together in social groups. Empathy is required for survival and empathy is part of the mind. It also occurs in animals in different and similar ways. Empathy becomes inverted and used to justify anger and aggression when a person is afraid. Empathy is fundamentally frightening. It makes us aware of the existence and experience of other people. Our world is full of humans now so our awareness of the more »
Jim Solo In Isolation Week 6 - 5pm EDT Saturday, April 25, 2020 on YouTube Live

SHOW LINK - join in at 5pm EDT Saturday, April 25. (I do a sound test 5 mins early) https://youtu.be/I8D6al5TnyI I will be doing my 6th Solo In Isolation show from my sofa live on YouTube this Saturday at 5pm EDT. You can send requests to @jiminfantino on twitter or to me on facebook https://facebook.com/jinfantino/ Because this is a live show, I will archive each show after 1 week of playing them. Subscribe to the Jim's Big Ego YouTube Channel to get more information: https://www.youtube.com/user/jimsbigego 25% of all tips from Ko-fi and Venmo will go to the Passim Emergency Artist Releaf Fund https://passim.org/pearfund/ The shows run about an hour and I plan to have an after-party again on Zoom. I will post the link at the end of the show. I also want to mention that I'm a co-ordinator for Jim Rosen's online Zoom based meditation group. We meet Tuesdays and Thursdays at 10am EDT. Jim Rosen has been my meditation instructor for over a decade. He is very down to earth and personable. I help out by managing the member flow in the group. This is a great way to help you with the stress of these uncertain times. Go to https://jimrosen.com/meditate to sign up. Stay healthy, Stay well, stay sane. - Jim more »